To start off with... the main purpose of this profile is to find a swing partner / playmate / partner in crime for our male half. Best case scenario? Another couple with a male half who doesn't like going out as much as the female half... next best case, a single lady who just wants a good friend for safe, sane, fun erotic times! Now, on with our regularly scheduled profile... :) We're a long term, very committed couple, although we're not married nor do we live together. Don't take the fact that we live seperately to mean that we're not totally committed, though... we've both come out of the first marriages in the not-too-distant past, we just want to do the second time around the RIGHT way. Hell, we've co-signed on car loans together, if that's not committment, we don't know what is. lol... We're looking for friends who have incredible benefits! :) We like to laugh, smile, talk... and we also LOVE the sexual experience. We'd love to find other couples who like to do anything from hang out and become pals... to, well, skipping the hanging out and just have fun! We're 100% open and honest with each other about everything, that takes precedence over everything else... so no worries about drama, there is none here. She - Thin and beautiful, very polite, outgoing, and just about the sweetest lady you'll ever meet in your life. Hasn't been in the "lifestyle" as long as he has, but she's making up for lost time! He - Athletic, long hair, and more than a bit of a smartass... he's been in the lifestyle for a few years now, and has had a lot of fun! Greatly enjoying having fun as a couple as opposed to solo fun... Both - Love to laugh, love to sit around in a hot tub or on the couch just talking our dang heads off... preferably without clothes! We both can and do play solo... we greatly prefer to play together, but our schedules are REALLY rough, he works strange hours, and care can be tough for both of us - so, we have no problem with each other "scratching that itch" if the moment presents itself. Any solo play we do is done with consent and full knowledge of the other partner, nothing behind anyone's back! Her solo play is pretty much only with guys who she's already met, or guys who are part of couples that we already know, so PLEASE no solo men emailing us, it's just not gonna happen. He likes solo play with couples, so if you're a couple wanting MFM or MF with hubby watching, he loves that! If you're a couple or single lady getting an email from him, rest assured that she's gonna know all about it, NO DRAMA.

My Ideal Person We can both play seperately or together, although of course we MUCH prefer to play together. Our schedules are horrible to work around, so if you take interest in us, PLEASE be patient. We DO like to meet and play, but it takes a while to get all the planets to align where we can make it out for fun time.

Neither of us are bi, but she's what I'd call bi-receptive, maybe? not really curious, but she has had a bit of contact with a woman, and while she enjoyed it to a degree, she's pretty much straight. She likes guys more than anything. We're both very open to having off-the-wall fun, but nothing icky or involving pain!

Time for an update on "what she's done..." Been to a few more parties, been to a few more clubs, and had a TON of fun. She's still not as active as he is, but the newbie swinger jitters are ALL gone, she enjoys the, um, social activity greatly.

HE has done a bit of everything (well, everything a straight guy who's not a weirdo can do!).

We're not interested in the ladies pleasing each other with guys watching, sigh... not our thing. And sorry, single guys, we're not interested. We're okay with taking things slow, we hope y'all are as patient as we are... we're busy with kids and work, so some planning is usually necessary! Be patient with us, and we'll be patient with you.

We're free members here, so we can only see a few profiles a day, so if you email us, it may be a day or two before we get back to you... we want to both be able to look at your profile and respond. Being courteous and polite is VERY important to us, so we intend to respond to all emails (except maybe ones from solo guys, sorry, we're just not interested!), it may just take a little time.

Now, there are some we'll email who won't be interested in us, physically, and some who'll email us who WE won't be interested in, physically... but we love to make friends with just about anyone who's fun, personable, not insane, outgoing... get the picture? Just because we won't fall into bed with you or you with us doesn't mean we can't all be pals. If all you're here for is the sex sex sex, well, who knows, maybe we have some friends who will like you or you will have some friends who like us! And if we end up at the same party or something, think how awkward it'll be if we were rude to each other here. lol... so anyhow, we just like being friends with everyone, even if we're not gonna all see each other naked.

Lastly, she's VERY thin framed, so heavy set people aren't a turn on... no judgements, just personal preference.