I'm a bundle of contradictions. Most of the time I'm kind of reserved and tend to be shy. But every once and awhile my fun side peeks out and I shock everyone that thinks they know me. I do believe in sharing....responsibilities I can be laid back and let you take the lead, though there are times I want to be the aggressor. I just added a few pictures, they are about 5 yrs old but I haven't changed much. Added a few more these are new. I'd like to have regular guy, a FWB stressing the friends. I'm not looking for a gold ring.. He does need to be clean and in general a nice guy. I like men that can make me laugh out loud, that know how to massage my mind as well as my body. Someone that will treat me like a lad., but please don't put me on a pedestal... it hurts when I fall off. Here's a hint guys Part of treating me like a lady includes not showing up in jeans and a tee shirt for a first meet. Unless we are going to a picnic. I will dressing nicely and expect my date to do so too. Some one that will help me explore other parts of me, I am bi curious and also curious about threesomes. I'm also interested in exploring other parts of me. I do occasionally get on cam. but I don't chat there when I do so you will need to send me an email if you have more that a passing interest. :) I can also often be found in a chat room

My Ideal Person Is over the age of 45, in fact I won't even respond to those younger than that . If you are cheating on your spouse please do not bother me. I DO NOT LIKE CHEATERS.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, A little of each, Friendship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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