I am a young, vigorous 55 years old and I live with my longtime girlfriend...whose libido disappeared almost completely a few years ago...It has been over two years and although she says she is going to see a doctor etc she hasn't done anything as yet...and now what was my source of joy for so long is gone...and she doesn't even like me to touch her any more...but enough whining and I love cooking and enjoying good food, although I am not into wines much. I love music of all kinds, but my favorites are blues, blues rock, and old time rock and roll. I also enjoy country,R & B,motown,classical,opera,and even some modern current music. I will listen to anything and everything and am often surprised to find that I enjoy stuff I didn't think I liked, such as some hip hop and even some . I am somewhat of a movie buff and often prefer movies over todays primetime television offerings. I'm a (rapidly) aging ex-jock and have played sports all my adult life. I played ice hockey and softball through my late forties, have skied (both downhill and cross-country) and skated and still do on occai. I also am a huge sports fan who lives and dies by my beloved Red Sox, Pats, Bruins, and Celts. I am an experienced lover and sex is still very much a source of joy and wonderment for me. What turns me on the most is turning my lover on...the more she responds,the more I love it,the more exciting I find it, and the better it is for me. I am hoping to find a lover who loves sex and who has no problem letting me know what they like and don't like, what turns them on as well as what turns them off, and what more esoteric things they want to explore. For me nothing is better than being able to completely pleasure my lover, to drive them wild until they explode, and then then to dive in and get mine...I have no problem exploring any and all avenues of sex and am delighted to honor requests...as long as it remains a two way street. My motto has always been "the lady always comes first". That being said, I am old enough to understand that there are times when a woman wants to be driven wild and other times when she may be too tired or too stressed, or just not in the right mood for sexual olympics...

My Ideal Person I am seeking someone that I can connect with, be comfortable with, and have respect for,as well as someone I find physically attractive. A sense of humor is absolutely essential in anyone who I hang out with, whether sex is involved or not. I would prefer someone who enjoys good meals, good movies, good music, good conversation, and of course good sex. I am looking for a lover or lovers with whom I can be honest about myself and where I am coming from and who will be honest with me. I am also looking for someone who can be a friend. I would have no problem having a relationship based entirely on sex, being someones
"boy toy",but those situations tend to have a short shelf life. Having a real friend with "benefits" that has the potential to last a while sounds better.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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