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Pegpete 45 M
1  question
Anal orgasm advice for men - 4/24/2024

Any advice on the best positions or toys to use to achieve the best male anal orgasm. I mean when you totally blow your load without touching your cock.

2 response(s), 1 vote
Nightbeacon1000 99 M
1  question
Straight guys on the DL - 4/24/2024

If you didn't think admitting to having had sex with other men would diminish your social standing at all, would you admit it publicly on a site like this, and would you still be uncomfortable about feeling like you gave up your "straightness"?

9 response(s), 3 votes
Hotxhaust69 39 M
1  question
Penis Enlargement pills - 4/5/2024

I am just over 8inch in size but would like to know if there are any penis enlargement pills that work

5 response(s), 0 votes
analific 70 M
6  questions
How to tell a "T" from a "CD" - 3/29/2024

How can you tell a "T" from a "CD"? Is there any difference?

2 response(s), 1 vote
hanson615 61 M
1  question
Best Place to go for Sex toys - 3/11/2024

New on here. What are members favorite place to go for Sex Toys? <br><br> Thx!

2 response(s), 0 votes
Javan091 58 M
1  question
As a BBC what was it like to get that first White Chick in the Ass ? - 2/28/2024

Any other Black man like me ? I've been with white women before, but I've never had or been with one who Loves Anal. Tell me, Bruhs; what was that first experience like ? Or White Guys with Black Women ? I've had experiences with Black Women who Loved or were willing to do Anal. The Tightness around my "D" felt unbelievable, it was Wonderful !!! And the way she Hump Feed me ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
subforuse2024 46 M
1  question
How to become a good Sissy Slut & be an Owners Bitch - 2/21/2024

<br><br> Hi As a recent bdsm fetish kinky little thing I am discovering my new outfits makeup etc daily. Soo much fun. I want to get a nose job and breasts. Based in Oxford I am willing to relocate for anyone wholl have me. Any advice how to meet people.

1 response(s), 1 vote
Aenghus562 67 M
1  question
Travelling and meeting - 1/18/2024

This past December I travelled to Naples Fl. for three weeks. If/when I travel somewhere for a specific length of time how do I announce it to potential partners in advance? It would be rather tedious and time consuming to send out messages/invitations one at a time.

4 response(s), 3 votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
2  questions
Arrange This In Order Of Importance - 1/15/2024

Arrange This In Order Of Importance <br><br> Looks Money Personality Loyalty

6 response(s), 0 votes
Does anyone know any other ways of getting points - 1/1/2024

Think AdultFriendFinder have limits on free points from commenting and posting. Any other ways to get points?

22 response(s), 35 votes
How do u come across as interested without being over the top? - 1/1/2024

Ok so i was msging this great chick on here great flirtasious fun and seemed interested i definately am in her. Then havent had a reply to IM msgs so ive asked and said im interested and apologised for getting i spose the word is to attached. I was genuine any advice?

15 response(s), 19 votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
2  questions
What does Love mean to you? - 9/18/2023

Respect and Care Romance and Sex Attachment Attraction Magic Faith in God Something else Love has many forms. In what form do you like Love the most?...

1 response(s), 0 votes
i69withyou 70 M
1  question
How do you handle a gal that won't let herself cum? - 9/18/2023

I have a girl friend that always stops before she will let herself cum! She claims even when she plays by herself, she stops before she climaxes! Try as I may, no matter what I do I cannot convince her to let go and allow herself to climax. It doesn't matter if I'm fingering her, eating her, using toys, or fucking her. She always stops before cumming! Anyone have any ideas on how to get ...

26 response(s), 2 votes
G000dbuddy 36 M
2  questions
date a single parent change anything in the dating process? - 9/13/2023

Does the fact you're about to date a single parent change anything in the dating process? It can, to some degree, particularly if the person hasn't been actively dating. Taking care of doesn't leave much time for socializing. In fact, if the are pre-school age, there's not much time left for anything. <br><br> Whether you're asking out a single mom, or being ...

8 response(s), 3 votes
sexygeo336 42 M
5  questions
how much better is a orgy than a ganagbang????? - 8/22/2023

Just wondering <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> how much better is an orgy over a gangbang or r they pretty much the same thing?????????

6 response(s), 6 votes
First time - 4/6/2023

I want to experience having sex with tgirls or shemales It be my first time what should I do.

8 response(s), 3 votes
CarolynCrups 64 F
1  question
Why would you think? - 2/3/2023

I wax my mound and keep her clean. I do my best each day to look and smell nice. I take the time not only for myself but for others that are around me. So. Why would you think that I would like to have some hairy faced male between my legs licking my mound? I mean I got rid of the hair that was there. It has been said that a male uses the hair on his face as a mask to hide behind. So far, I ...

8 response(s), 14 votes
Turntoutguy 39 M
2  questions
Dealbreaker - 2/2/2023

Is crossdressing a deal breaker for a relationship with women that are bisexual as well?

5 response(s), 2 votes
andyapple2 40 M
1  question
Bicurious - 1/23/2023

Guys, how did u tell ur gf, wife, significant other about wanting to play with another man? Did they get mad or accept it? Ladies how do u feel about ur man playing with other men?

47 response(s), 32 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
How do you change men? - 12/15/2022

Men have this illusion that women who like to frequent nude beaches or swim in the pool without a bikini are looking for sex? How do you bring men back into reality and convince them that caring, tenderness, special connection and love leads to making love? Nudity has nothing to do with sex, it is just how God made us ...

49 response(s), 20 votes
maynardcpl 61 C
1  question
how to let transwomen now you aren't chasers - 11/17/2022

my wife and i are have had trans friends and we really enjoy their company and friendship but it seems that it is almost impossible to talk to them if you are a couple. we don't consider them a fetish, it's not just about sex, but the sex when it happens is great, we won't lie.

15 response(s), 12 votes
Wetandhard2020 57 C
4  questions
AdultFriendFinder Meets - 10/2/2022

What are people's experiences of first meets and how long it has taken them to meet with suitable singles or couples? We'd like to try our first mmf or mfmf but dont seem to get passed the chatting/emailing stage. Any hints or tips, or is it one of those if it's right, it will happen? We don't want to just jump into something for the sake of the experience, we'd like it to ...

49 response(s), 43 votes
Lipstick that stays while cocksucking? - 9/24/2022

i have just recently started my crossdressing journey and im loving it! but i have one burning question about lipstick. i see videos of women sucking cock and their lipstick doesnt wear off. what type of lipstick is this??

13 response(s), 8 votes
looking43sumefun 48 C
1  question
period sex - 9/5/2022

Is enjoying sex with girls while they are on a period, wrong or right?

56 response(s), 48 votes
BiSussi 62 F
12  questions
Xmas Gifts - 8/10/2022

Do you know already what you buy for your husband, boyfriend/s or lover/s? <br><br> Somewhat lost this year ;( what would you suggest for guys in their early twenties? <br><br> Not a believer in gift cards, just hope you have some unique gift ideas <br><br> Please do help, as I want to surprise my loved guys!

21 response(s), 11 votes
zooter1968 55 M
2  questions
Wife share - 7/6/2022

Does anyone find it strange to want to watch their wife suck a stranger's cock?

33 response(s), 27 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Post Affair - 7/6/2022

Serious question time. Has anyone's relationship ever recovered after an affair?

32 response(s), 24 votes
sandburr60 69 M
9  questions
Blogs - 7/6/2022

Does anybody write on blogs anymore. I had been following about a dozen different blogs, but nobody seems to be using them anymore. Why is that?

19 response(s), 5 votes
Wetandhard2020 57 C
4  questions
Exhibitionism - 7/6/2022

If you were seen having sex, would it be more embarrassing or exciting if its was someone you knew? If it was exciting being seen by someone you knew, who would be most exciting to be seen by? Friend, Relation or Workmate?

14 response(s), 16 votes
Pussyeater826969 41 M
1  question
Watching your partner - 7/6/2022

Do women think it's HOT to watch their man pleasing another woman? I love to watch the woman I am with, with another man or woman. But she doesn't always seem to be into it in reverse.. is this normal?

31 response(s), 17 votes