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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/20/2018 8:22 pm

To be or not to be that is the question. Oh wait that isn't Hemingway and that's not the question.

Hows about these? Honest, smart, affectionate, sensual, able to communicate, non-judgmental, and easygoing. You know . . . a unicorn.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


marriedcretin 53M
1324 posts
2/20/2018 8:34 pm

Hmmm...breathing...patience of a saint, long hair, great boobs, splendid cook, heir to a brewery, has twin sister, great shoes, independently wealthy, looks good in a startrek dress, has a startrek dress...


Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
2/20/2018 10:17 pm

Hmmmm. . . .funny you should ask. I beat the hell out of this question commenting on a similar post this morning, so it wasn't so tough the second time.

However, because I respect your blog and would never want to soil it with plagiarized foolishness -- and since your question was, of course, MUCH-much better -- I've reworked my answer a bit. Also added a few other qualities I somehow missed earlier. Just to keep it fresh.

Goes without saying, this is just me. I'm a pretty simple guy and have just a few small things for a "quality woman." Gack. . . can we puh-leease find a new term.

Physical attraction would usually be what catches my attention. Doesn't it for everyone? Has to be just a bit more, though. Someone who is smart, witty, a little sarcastic, sexy and a little freaky, in a smart, witty and sarcastic way; but also able to shape-shift between all those qualities on the fly. Someone with a sense of adventure that doesn't include dragging me hiking across the entire Appalachian Trail. Someone who can gut and clean a salmon and then clean up in 45-minutes or less for cocktails on the balcony. Someone who took at least an Olympic silver in kissing. Someone who owns at least one pair of ripped jeans. Someone who can tear into a steak and not be so dainty about it. Someone who's willing to talk openly about sex and the naughty things that work best for her, but still looking to be adventurous and expand her list. Someone who likes dogs and who my dog likes. Someone willing to travel to lesser-known places - like Uruguay or Montenegro. Maybe Lichtenstein. Someone who appreciates that I occasionally don't want to be with her and knows that it has absolutely nothing to do with her or my feelings toward her. Someone who has never watched Real Housewives of Anywhere in the Goddamn World. Someone who can find where the hell I hid my spare house key. Oh, and that one's kind of a priority. Someone who doesn’t smoke and hasn’t in at least eight-years, four-months. Someone who can occasionally pull off a really good prank – on me or anyone else, doesn’t matter. Someone who will shake her head angrily when some karaoke singer starts doing Party in the USA, elbow me in the ribs, get up from the table and say, “Watch my pork chop. I’m gonna put a stop to this.” Someone who has an open bottle of bourbon somewhere in her home and who confesses to "needing it" once or twice. Someone who would never-ever-EVER ask me, “What are you thinking?” Someone who appreciates that I’m an irrational fan of only one sports team, and anything I say or do after a loss is forgivable once I’ve calmed down and apologize sweetly a day or four later. Someone who wouldn’t ever think to arrange any sort of ruse, where all my friends and family jump out from hiding and yell “Surprise!!”

Some of these are more flexible than others.

Glad you asked?

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Yours_4A_knight 59M

2/20/2018 10:33 pm

An independent adult is a good start, but really all the things that apply to men (care about themselves and others, articulate, educated, intelligent, has a sense of a personal identity) also apply to women, are you looking to see if we men have a group of gender-specific traits that we use to personally separate the wheat from the chaff quality wise. I guess that I am saying that I personally don't

Attraction wise, I have preferences like anyone else, but just because I am not attracted to someone that doesn't mean I automatically don't concidér them a quality person.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
2/21/2018 12:12 am

    Quoting Januaryman99:
    Hmmmm. . . .funny you should ask. I beat the hell out of this question commenting on a similar post this morning, so it wasn't so tough the second time.

    However, because I respect your blog and would never want to soil it with plagiarized foolishness -- and since your question was, of course, MUCH-much better -- I've reworked my answer a bit. Also added a few other qualities I somehow missed earlier. Just to keep it fresh.

    Goes without saying, this is just me. I'm a pretty simple guy and have just a few small things for a "quality woman." Gack. . . can we puh-leease find a new term.

    Physical attraction would usually be what catches my attention. Doesn't it for everyone? Has to be just a bit more, though. Someone who is smart, witty, a little sarcastic, sexy and a little freaky, in a smart, witty and sarcastic way; but also able to shape-shift between all those qualities on the fly. Someone with a sense of adventure that doesn't include dragging me hiking across the entire Appalachian Trail. Someone who can gut and clean a salmon and then clean up in 45-minutes or less for cocktails on the balcony. Someone who took at least an Olympic silver in kissing. Someone who owns at least one pair of ripped jeans. Someone who can tear into a steak and not be so dainty about it. Someone who's willing to talk openly about sex and the naughty things that work best for her, but still looking to be adventurous and expand her list. Someone who likes dogs and who my dog likes. Someone willing to travel to lesser-known places - like Uruguay or Montenegro. Maybe Lichtenstein. Someone who appreciates that I occasionally don't want to be with her and knows that it has absolutely nothing to do with her or my feelings toward her. Someone who has never watched Real Housewives of Anywhere in the Goddamn World. Someone who can find where the hell I hid my spare house key. Oh, and that one's kind of a priority. Someone who doesn’t smoke and hasn’t in at least eight-years, four-months. Someone who can occasionally pull off a really good prank – on me or anyone else, doesn’t matter. Someone who will shake her head angrily when some karaoke singer starts doing Party in the USA, elbow me in the ribs, get up from the table and say, “Watch my pork chop. I’m gonna put a stop to this.” Someone who has an open bottle of bourbon somewhere in her home and who confesses to "needing it" once or twice. Someone who would never-ever-EVER ask me, “What are you thinking?” Someone who appreciates that I’m an irrational fan of only one sports team, and anything I say or do after a loss is forgivable once I’ve calmed down and apologize sweetly a day or four later. Someone who wouldn’t ever think to arrange any sort of ruse, where all my friends and family jump out from hiding and yell “Surprise!!”

    Some of these are more flexible than others.

    Glad you asked?
what if she plans a surprise party as a prank on you???? Is it then allowed?


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
2/21/2018 12:17 am

Not a thin-skinned prima donna- and on here that includes women who decide no-one is allowed to disagree with their blog...ever

not a femi-Nazi. We know women don't like the term but tough, we men know they are and what it means- and on here as in blogs that includes women who accuse men of being criminals and stalkers for not being sycophants and actually daring to challenge them

Strong- real strong women don't need to proclaim it in evidence and they certainly don't confuse being an arsehole and strident ball-breaker with real strength

Brave enough to call out the witch hunt of #metoo hysteria

And there will be other qualities that should be involved and will be quoted extensively elsewhere in the responses


Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
2/21/2018 12:17 am

    Quoting dayzeeme:
    what if she plans a surprise party as a prank on you???? Is it then allowed?
Holy crap!! You found a loophole in the system.

. . . . women can be so evil.

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Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
2/21/2018 2:35 am

Answer is simple it is a woman that you like and get on with. Each of us is different therefore quality is in the eye of the beholder.

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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
2/21/2018 4:08 am

You know me, I like to keep it simple: smart and fun.

Oh sure, other things matter too - self confident (equals sexy), adventurous , etc., but those all roll up in to one of my "big two" listed above.

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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
2/21/2018 4:56 am

Let me answer for all of them........gives good head and swallows. There you go.


Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
2/21/2018 5:55 am

    Quoting positively4you:
    Let me answer for all of them........gives good head and swallows. There you go.
Any chance you could time it so that there's a pizza at the door immediately after, Future Ex-Mrs. Januaryman?

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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
2/21/2018 8:07 am

I didnt know I have to be serious. Not sure I can. I will try.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/21/2018 3:59 pm

Why do you always preface your posts with an apology for being curious.......?

So, 'quality'...........

For me, in no particular order - intelligence, ability to articulate, sense of humour, ability to be introspective, ability to laugh at the results of said introspection, not right wing politically, sexy, sensual, comfortable in her own skin, secure, erudite, adventurous, interested, engaging...........

No' much really.......=)=..........a reflection of me............


40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
2/21/2018 4:42 pm

Bang , zoom , straight to the moon !

I like a woman who's peer-reviewed in the streets , widely discredited in the sheets .

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Maize32 55M  
1391 posts
2/21/2018 6:40 pm

Tap, tap, tap...is this thing on? Can you hear me??? Ahem, with out further ado:

My thoughts on a quality woman: First and foremost, one that understands and accepts there are three lives in each relationship - hers, mine, and ours. Now, I'm not saying that we have different partners, etc...I'm speaking more that she has her interests/friends, I have mine and then we have them together.

Additionally qualities that are attractive: self confidence; sense of humor; kind; even tempered; good conversationalist and is open to various points of views; spontaneous; and is caring.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
2/22/2018 4:42 pm

It took me two days to scale this down into one sentence.

Smart, funny and a good communicator.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
2/22/2018 8:22 pm

BiggLala replies on 2/22/2018 9:59 pm:
You didn't have to make it one sentence. Write as much as you need to describe your ideal...if you want. Anyway...that's a solid list.

That's easy. I can cut and paste that from my profile.

My Ideal Person

Ideal?
I don't expect anyone to be ideal but if all of the following applies to you

A woman that's highly intelligent and knows it.
A woman close to my height and weight.
A woman that can please me with her words whether written or spoken.
A woman that's healthy and has an abundance of energy.
A woman that's outgoing and comfortable with public displays of affection.
A woman that has a great sense of humor and can make ME laugh.
A woman that genuinely cares about me and my well being.
A woman with great culinary skills.
A woman that is available physically and emotionally.
A woman that has class but will always be my freak.
A woman with an ass that stops traffic and causes accidents.
A sexy Libra woman. They know why.
A redhead. They know why too.




wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
2/24/2018 11:34 am

interesting

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
2/25/2018 3:58 pm

    Quoting marriedcretin:
    Hmmm...breathing...patience of a saint, long hair, great boobs, splendid cook, heir to a brewery, has twin sister, great shoes, independently wealthy, looks good in a startrek dress, has a startrek dress...
did someone say startrek

I feel like one of those people who bust in on other people's cams and post a link to their own cam but...... I have permission!


marriedcretin 53M
1324 posts
2/26/2018 6:28 pm

ooohhh yeeeaaahhhh bbbaaabbbyyyyyy!
oh yeah
oh yeah
oh yeah!
(sigh), was that good for your too?

(and who doesn't get the expendable reference...the life extent of a red shirt on an away mission is limited)


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
2/27/2018 7:04 pm

Appearances/looks slightly matter but it all comes down to personality. Being Sexy has more to do with personality.

Someone who is smart. Someone that can carry a conversation and is not clueless (Doesn't think Colombia is a part of Mexico or all of the Middle East is a desert or knows the difference between the Snorks & Smurfs ).

Someone who is nice and considerate instead of being shallow and stuck-up. Being rude was never a turn on and not be selfish. One good deed deserves another.

Good hygiene (unfortunate encounter with someone who had slight BO was an eye-opener and a nose opener) and doesn't smoke a lot or is drug-free

Someone who has a sense of humor and can be sarcastic. Someone who also knows how to trade punches in a witty manner (one good comeback deserves another)

Someone who is passionate, not too kinky but open to new things.

I guess that would be who I consider as my idea of a quality woman


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
3/1/2018 5:33 pm

"BiggLala replies on 3/1/2018 1:41 pm:
Yeah, many people say it all comes down to personality. However, I also think personality only goes so far, and physical attraction must there. Otherwise, it's just a good friendship."

Well it depends on the person. For me, it slightly matters. I find people more attractive based on their personalities.

I've been turned off by beautiful women who have a horrible personality and would not consider them an ideal person. I would never consider someone like Paris Hilton or Kim K as my ideal woman.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


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