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One word insults.  

bigblackman21221 53M
394 posts
1/8/2018 4:33 pm
One word insults.

Do they bother you? <<<<< QUESTION



I personally expect a whole paragraph when someone wants to insult me.

A one word insult just seems lazy to me. I mean fuck man be original. HAHA!!!!

This is not a post for sympathy but just to let some members know that no one is immune.

Not even.........





bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 4:34 pm




pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
1/8/2018 4:55 pm

I hope you reported that person for sending such a message.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
1/8/2018 5:00 pm

Understand you. Was called a old cunt by a male because I don't want his age. I know I am old. Plain as day on my profile. As for a cunt it's not the first time been called that. Either is bitch whore slut. Orginial isn't it? Wish I was as creative as they are NOT.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/8/2018 5:46 pm

A complete stranger can't insult me - they don't know anything about me so they have no basis to make any knowledgeable comment.

What that "person" wrote suggests they are ignorant. They certainly are not well suited to a place whose purpose is to bring people together. Given that report em, block em, and fuck em deep and long . . . with a telephone pole.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/8/2018 5:47 pm

It's certainly isn't appropriate.
But one can't tell if it was a racist comment
coming from the non black community
or someone from the black community
saying just what you yourselves call each other.
Aren't we jumping the gun here?

Using more than all the road!


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:04 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    I hope you reported that person for sending such a message.
Nope.
I can take it.
I'm a big believer in the 1st amendment.

Besides, I've called this guy much worse.


Thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:07 pm

    Quoting Brownie202:
    Understand you. Was called a old cunt by a male because I don't want his age. I know I am old. Plain as day on my profile. As for a cunt it's not the first time been called that. Either is bitch whore slut. Orginial isn't it? Wish I was as creative as they are NOT.
Believe it or not I've been called a cunt too.

I'm really not sure if it was meant as an insult by that person or not.

Thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:12 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't even remember the last time I reported someone for insulting me.

I looked at the person's profile, what they wrote would suggest that they wouldn't be interested in me.

\When I study the person's profile I conclude that they are not what they state.

He doesn't seem to be happy.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:15 pm

    Quoting  :

I don't block people for stuff like that unless they actually won't just go away.

IM's seem to just disappear on their own.

Thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:20 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    A complete stranger can't insult me - they don't know anything about me so they have no basis to make any knowledgeable comment.

    What that "person" wrote suggests they are ignorant. They certainly are not well suited to a place whose purpose is to bring people together. Given that report em, block em, and fuck em deep and long . . . with a telephone pole.
It's weird because some words that really would insult me probably wouldn't bother others as much.

He may have those type of fantasies.
I can't help him.

Thanks for commenting triple R.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:28 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    It's certainly isn't appropriate.
    But one can't tell if it was a racist comment
    coming from the non black community
    or someone from the black community
    saying just what you yourselves call each other.
    Aren't we jumping the gun here?
I would suggest you look at the person's profile if you haven't already and judge for yourself.

The black community I associate with doesn't use the word Nigger towards each other.
They use the word Nigga. I realize they look and sound similar but they have different meanings.

I don't think that I'm jumping the gun.
I think it's fair to say that the person that wrote that IM probably wasn't just saying hello. I could be wrong I'll just let other make their own judgement.

Thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:33 pm

    Quoting  :

HAHA!!

Those damn words can be a bitch sometimes. Most don't bother me.

Thanks for commenting comrade.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/8/2018 6:48 pm

    Quoting  :

I actually was more amused than insulted.

I just interpreted what the person wrote as being meant as an insult.
I could be wrong but........... hmmmm I don't think so.

Then I immediately thought, well here's something I can blog about.

Thanks for commenting.



CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
1/8/2018 10:48 pm

How disappointing in originality & intent ...

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bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/9/2018 1:28 pm

    Quoting  :

Hello nice lady.
Please don't be sorry.

I was neither insulted or offended.
I can't believe that after eight years of that brown skin guy in the white house that people haven't come up with something new.

There are lots of people like that guy that wrote that instant message.
I'd rather they bring that nonsense to me than bother someone that might be insulted or offended.

Thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/9/2018 1:35 pm

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    How disappointing in originality & intent ...
Definitely not original.

When I think about it he may have had the additional intent of getting me to look at his profile.

Happy New Year to you and thanks for commenting.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/9/2018 1:41 pm

    Quoting vopesahe:
    I don't like the word and I don't use it, who use it is insulting and racialistic but I mean that not take to personal because it says more about the person who use it. I am called Negerhure Nigger Whore because I was married with an african man but that did not bother me.
Nennen Sie das jetzt oder war das in der Vergangenheit?

Ich glaube nicht, dass Rassismus in deinem Land so war.

Ich bin froh, dass solche Worte dich nicht sexy Frau gestört haben.

Danke für das Teilen Ihrer Erfahrung.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/9/2018 1:57 pm

    Quoting  :

I think it's pretty hilarious actually. I imagine he truly thought saying that was really going to 'hurt' you.

Hopefully that wasn't his best shot.

I think it equally hilarious to question whether you're jumping the gun because [some] blacks us the word with each other or without full comprehension that SOME blacks use a variation of the word.

I admit that comment had me scratching my head. It's obvious that the profile picture is of a non black person.

Some one word insults that a person intends for it to be an insult still probably won't get to me, especially if it's really just a true statement

I can be easily offended by certain words used to describe me.
None of them would be true and that's probably why.

Thanks for commenting.


wantpusanddik 38F
36 posts
1/9/2018 9:28 pm

Damn Biggy. I ignore the im and delete all the unsolicited emails I get. One word insults don't bother me much. Thanks for the advice and points you gave me when I first joined.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/10/2018 7:57 am

    Quoting wantpusanddik:
    Damn Biggy. I ignore the im and delete all the unsolicited emails I get. One word insults don't bother me much. Thanks for the advice and points you gave me when I first joined.
Hey what's up shorty. Why you been a stranger?
I'm glad you don't let stupid shit get to you.
As far as the points and advice are concerned, don't mention it. Really.

You're making me look soft and weak. HAHAHA!!!!

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.


vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
1/10/2018 12:17 pm

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    Nennen Sie das jetzt oder war das in der Vergangenheit?

    Ich glaube nicht, dass Rassismus in deinem Land so war.

    Ich bin froh, dass solche Worte dich nicht sexy Frau gestört haben.

    Danke für das Teilen Ihrer Erfahrung.
Nennen sie das jetzt oder war das in der Vergangenheit?

Beides, jetzt weniger.

Ich glaube nicht, dass Rassismus in deinem Land so war.

Anders, mein Ex-Mann hat einiges erlebt und erlebt es noch und er lebt jetzt schon über 20 Jahre hier, was ihn und auch mich nicht gleichgültig liess. Und durch die Einwanderer der letzten Jahre ist der Rassismus mehr geworden.

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bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/10/2018 12:36 pm

Ich hatte keine Ahnung.

Glaubst du, ich würde es erleben, wenn ich es besuche?


vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
1/10/2018 12:52 pm

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    Ich hatte keine Ahnung.

    Glaubst du, ich würde es erleben, wenn ich es besuche?
Das könnte sein, aber es wäre vielleicht anders zu sehen und zu bewerten, wenn man besuchsweise im Land ist.

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bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/10/2018 1:04 pm

    Quoting vopesahe:
    Das könnte sein, aber es wäre vielleicht anders zu sehen und zu bewerten, wenn man besuchsweise im Land ist.
Ich frage mich, ob ich anders behandelt würde, weil es offensichtlich wäre, dass ich Amerikaner bin?




vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
1/10/2018 1:40 pm

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    Ich frage mich, ob ich anders behandelt würde, weil es offensichtlich wäre, dass ich Amerikaner bin?


Wenn es offensichtlich wäre vielleicht, ich als Deutsche hätte keine Bedenken in die USA zu reisen. Im umgekehrten Fall bewerte ich das schwieriger, weil durch die Einwanderer soviel passiert und viele Deutsche, ich gehöre nicht dazu, verurteilen und bewerten die Dinge ohne sich mit der Realität zu befassen. Und dann gibt es auch Racial Profiling bei uns.

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bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/10/2018 3:11 pm

Es hört sich an, als wären die Dinge dort genauso wie hier.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/11/2018 10:34 pm

    Quoting MissDReid:
    I shouldn't come back to this toxic black hole of a website huh?
Ah the return of the Points Fairy.
I really missed you young lady.

Fuck that asshole! He has no idea I hold his fate in my hands. HAHA!!!!

You know people like you only make this place better.
I think the recent uptick in bullshit is because of your absence.


vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
1/12/2018 4:34 am

    Quoting bigblackman21221:
    Es hört sich an, als wären die Dinge dort genauso wie hier.
Es sieht ganz danach aus.

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bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/12/2018 3:33 pm

    Quoting vopesahe:
    Es sieht ganz danach aus.




Vielen Dank für all Ihre Kommentare sexy Frauen.
Wenigstens hast du meinen Präsidenten nicht.


bbcurvy 54F  
10 posts
1/14/2018 7:17 am

More than likely the hater was just jealous. I got plenty of hater comments when I would cam with my bf or show pics. So let them hate and do what you do, fuck em.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/14/2018 10:50 am

    Quoting bbcurvy:
    More than likely the hater was just jealous. I got plenty of hater comments when I would cam with my bf or show pics. So let them hate and do what you do, fuck em.
It's just a day in the life on here.

I was here about 5 months when I made this video.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
1/19/2018 4:08 am

Well, ah have tae say McBig, that ah admire yer dignity and restraint, but I suppose this shite is something ye've lived with all yer life. Personally, this kinda fanny disgusts me, this kinda behaviour sickens, shames and bemuses me.

Mind, the fellae probably still lives in his parents' house and probably has an issue with halitosis which has prevented him from realising his full potential..........no wonder he's jealous of ye!!


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/19/2018 8:07 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Well, ah have tae say McBig, that ah admire yer dignity and restraint, but I suppose this shite is something ye've lived with all yer life. Personally, this kinda fanny disgusts me, this kinda behaviour sickens, shames and bemuses me.

    Mind, the fellae probably still lives in his parents' house and probably has an issue with halitosis which has prevented him from realising his full potential..........no wonder he's jealous of ye!!
HAHA!!!
McBig. I'm gonna steal that.
Actually I've only been called that word once in my life offline and it was when I was a kid and the person saying it was a younger smaller kid. Every other time it was online and mostly on this site.
That type of stuff always comes from people that I've had no contact with.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
1/20/2018 11:11 am

Oh, try going on cam and having 300 people viewing you... and some clown wants to come in and start saying hurtful things to you. My Ex found me on here and made several different profiles ...

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BooneDavis 43M
54 posts
1/31/2018 6:55 am

the only one that bothers me is boring

Midnight


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
1/31/2018 1:32 pm

    Quoting BooneDavis:
    the only one that bothers me is boring
HAHA!!!

That is one that would bother me too.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.


whore4bbcinmd 53M/63F
48 posts
2/8/2018 8:00 am

I usually get insulted with more than one word. every time it's by a white man


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