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Life, Death and Family Feuds  

passer58by 65M
1586 posts
6/27/2017 3:22 pm

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Life, Death and Family Feuds

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wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
6/27/2017 3:33 pm

yes, I know that feeling well.

when my ex made an attempt to return, I was surprised more than anything else. it seemed like we were doing fine in this new life of friends. seemed dangerous to play with something that was working....upset that for something that hadn't worked before.

odd isn't it? I would have done anything to not have him leave. but it made no sense at all to me to have him come back.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


passer58by 65M
4170 posts
6/27/2017 3:56 pm

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    yes, I know that feeling well.

    when my ex made an attempt to return, I was surprised more than anything else. it seemed like we were doing fine in this new life of friends. seemed dangerous to play with something that was working....upset that for something that hadn't worked before.

    odd isn't it? I would have done anything to not have him leave. but it made no sense at all to me to have him come back.
Exactly. At the time she told me she was leaving if I could have found the magic words that would have convinced her to stay I would have said them. But after thinking about it I realized that she had been trying to find a way out for quite some time. I would always have that thought in the back of my mind, when is she going to leave again.


TB5758 65M/67F  
577 posts
6/27/2017 4:19 pm

That was beautifully written and very thought provoking. I am blessed our marriage has lasted and she is my very best friend. It has not always been easy. We could have easily parted ways. This narrative made me really think about that. Thank you for a rare well written post.


porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
6/27/2017 9:39 pm

NICELY WRITTEN, sometimes we you realize the mistakes we made in some choices, she did realize her mistake and want to make up for it, it is also good you two get along when you are together, I never been married and I did at one point in my life when I was younger want to be, but now as I have gotten older I am glad I did get married, because I know me it would not have last long. lolol


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/28/2017 5:19 am

A beautifully written post. Sharing a personal life journey in retrospect is more than revealing, it's another step in solidifying the healing that has gone on.

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passer58by 65M
4170 posts
6/28/2017 9:49 am

    Quoting TB5758:
    That was beautifully written and very thought provoking. I am blessed our marriage has lasted and she is my very best friend. It has not always been easy. We could have easily parted ways. This narrative made me really think about that. Thank you for a rare well written post.
Thank you. The end of my marriage was not my choice, I would have liked to worked through our issues. But she was unwilling to do so. She was my best friend and that was a major issue in my dealing with her leaving.


passer58by 65M
4170 posts
6/28/2017 9:52 am

    Quoting porterpiper1:
    NICELY WRITTEN, sometimes we you realize the mistakes we made in some choices, she did realize her mistake and want to make up for it, it is also good you two get along when you are together, I never been married and I did at one point in my life when I was younger want to be, but now as I have gotten older I am glad I did get married, because I know me it would not have last long. lolol
Thank you. During our marriage I felt that we would always be able to work through whatever life tossed at us. At the end she was unwilling to do so.


passer58by 65M
4170 posts
6/28/2017 9:53 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    A beautifully written post. Sharing a personal life journey in retrospect is more than revealing, it's another step in solidifying the healing that has gone on.
Thank you. That is quite true. I know that I have healed from the pain of the divorce. And that is one reason I don't want to risk opening those wounds again.


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